NARCISSISM AND HUMAN EVIL
Narcissism is when you admire yourself and hold others in contempt
as inferiors.
Narcissism is individual or collective.
If the individual is the narcissist then we talk about agentic
individual narcissism.
Communal narcissism is when individuals are narcissistic together
and looking after each other – birds of a feather flock together.
They satiate their own narcissism by making it a group thing.
Collective narcissism is when a number of agentic narcissists just
happen to have the same goal. It's about the goal only. The fact that
they have the goal does not mean they share it.
Communal collective narcissism refers to a group that is has
features of both.
All forms of narcissism other people. They mark them as outsiders.
Why? Because they don't matter or are seen as threats.
M Scott Peck in his The People of the Lie says "all sins are
reparable except the sin of believing one is without sin." For Peck
sins do not make you evil. They are failures to reach a high moral
standard. A good person can fall several times a day. What makes you
evil is attempting to hide your sins and your evil from yourself.
"Evil originates not the absence of guilt but in the effort to
escape it." The book says pride which is the failure to see the evil
you do and the sins you commit makes you evil so you need to see the
truth.
He is talking about narcissistic pride. The narcissist loves herself
or himself and has nothing but tolerance (yes tolerance as in hating
you but having to put up with you) and contempt for others. The
narcissist suffers from above average pride - if suffer is the right
word.
Sin is about doing evil and also committing a crime against God.
Those who do not believe in God see evil as just bad but not as a
crime. They do not see how calling it a crime is helpful. If your
problem is the flu, wanting the nurse to decree that it is the flu
and medically the flu is a distraction. You need help for how you
feel and what books and all in a sense say do not matter. But you
need your diagnosis? No you need the benefits around the diagnosis.
The diagnosis is a means not an end. It is about actions not the
science or what the nurse thinks.
I would change Peck's wording to, "all evil traits are reparable
except the trait of believing one has no evil traits."
Extrovert narcissists tend to drive people away. Others can't bear
the boasting and the patronising.
However, a narcissist may be introverted. There is such a being as
the covert narcissist. An example of such a person is one who seems
to heroically help other people but is not doing it because they are
in pain or because they feel for them. They help for they see them
as useless and stupid. So they feel smart and superior by helping.
A narcissist can be an introverted narcissist one way and a more
open one in other ways. To think that your brain or your judgement
that you are being drawn to God through his grace in which he
reveals himself to you is narcissism of the introverted type. The
claim, "But the God I love is not about what I think or want him to
be. He relates to me personally and I have found him through how he
helped me through his grace" is just a cover-up. Anybody can say
that. Also, people think they are connected with a God and can be
wrong. It is narcissistic in itself to use such an excuse. And even
if God were revealing to you and reaching out personally it is you
thinking you can judge that it is him and not your own notions. That
is pure narcissistic arrogance. You are claiming to be as smart as
God if not more for you decide if he is speaking.
Religious introverted narcissism gives rise to more extrovert forms.
The Situational Narcissist describes a person who does well in life
and knows it and then starts to think of others as inferiors. It is
the kind of person of which we would say that success went to their
head. They are in a situation that allows them to acquire
narcissistic traits.
There is a way to be one of these situational narcissists without it
showing.
If you feel you have succeeded in getting a good relationship with a
perfect God, the owner and maker of all the universe, then you are a
situational narcissist.
Feeling that God has chosen you and your religious group can be a
form of communal narcissism.
We all have the potential to be narcissistic in some ways. If
God belief heightens that risk then is that belief something to
encourage? I don't think so. Not when you see the
consequences. A seemingly humble mediocre person can
show their narcissist true colours when given power.